Basically, if you let cyber bullying affect you in a similar way to real bullying, its you self-victimizing. You always have a choice to interact with a platform online. If you feel bullied and harassed on any particular platform, you have the choice to leave. Now, I'm obviously not talking about blackmail p0rn, doxing, swatting, etc. I'm talking about random people who don't interact with you IRL "bullying" you online.